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DECEMBER 2007 |
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Finally, December in December!
If you're just getting here since last August, there are updates for
October and November. I have been trying to get caught up over
the holidays. There are some updates there about ultra-cool trips to
Vladivostok, Russia and Kiev, Ukraine (just click on Last Month button
above) and birthdays and early holiday festivities. |
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Wednesday, December
26, 2007 |
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Now it's all me time!
Two weeks of vacation in my home with nobody but myself to care for
(which I do well;) !
In addition to all the good food I
bought for myself, Roma, Tatyana, and Steve gave me two jars of
premium caviar and a bottle of Standard Platinum vodka (the best in
the world).
These are things I usually buy
for myself for the holidays as special goodies. It was perfect
gift-giving ;) |
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Tuesday, December
25, 2007 |
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I usually spend the holidays at
home, in my wonderful house where everything is tailored to me.
I go to the expensive, gourmet, healthy food store and spend over
$500 on all the things I will want to eat for a week. I have a
stock of premium vodka on hand, and a slew of movies I've waited to
watch until now. This
year, though, I decided to spend Christmas Eve and Christmas Day with
Rob and Candace, and the Boys. Their family is like a movie.
Rob has two boys, Gabe and Dylan, and Candace has two boys, Cole and
Logan. They're each about a year apart in age, and seem to get
along extremely well. Really nice family, they are, and this was
an extra special holiday treat. As much as I like being by
myself, there's something essential about kids and Christmas. |
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Monday, December
17, 2007 |
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I went to visit Mom for a week
in Florida just before Christmas kicked in. Every trip there is
cool, but this one was extra-cool!
Both Mom and I are the types
that only buy gifts when there is a need for them. I mean, we
never buy simply for the sake of buying. Time together and some
good food is usually all we need.
This year, though, I went
all-out and got her a PSP, a DS Lite, and a 160 Gig iPod. She has
missed playing games since Dad died, but she didn't want to have a big
console hooked to the TV.
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I'm behind the times myself
getting the latest gadgets, and I missed my visit last year, so this
year I brought her both handhelds and a slew of games. It was
great getting her toys after a childhood of her getting them for me ;)
The iPod was the ultimate, though!
I got one for myself, too. We both have volumes and volumes of
music. We both have wanted one of these little storage devices
for a while, but were reluctant because of the technophobia. |
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We spent much of the week-long
visit getting educated on the system. Sometimes I feel so old
and slow. These things are great, though, and well worth the
learning time!
I converted ALL of my music from the 1950s to today's, that's 40+
years of tune collecting, and only used about 20% of the storage
capacity! I can live 4 more lives and still have space to spare
;) When I think of the walls of vinyl, and the only slightly lower
requirements of CDs, ...all on this card deck-sized device, ...wow! |
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Sunday, December
9, 2007 |
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Roma's Babushka (grandmother) is
visiting from Moscow. She isn't his genetic grandmother, but
took care of him when he was young, so, ...she is Babushka!
Russian babushkas really are special people. They should run the
world, me thinks. Sunday
was her birthday, so we took her out for a nice dinner. I think
she is 29 years old today, but I can't remember exactly.
She doesn't speak a word of
English, so it is very cool to go to class this month (she is here for
6 weeks). I bought her a T-shirt that reads "Texas Chick" and a
nice turquoise and silver necklace/earring set, all made here in
Texas. She should have something to take home so they all know
back there that we Texans are nice people just like them. Plus,
it is Russian tradition to give gifts! |
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Wednesday, December 5, 2007 |
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Well, I finally buckled down and
ordered a DNA test to see if I got any of my grandfather's DNA.
To recap from previous updates, my Mom's father (my grandfather) left when she was
only 6-months old, never to be heard from again. Her mother (my
grandmother) never, ever talked about him, so we know little about him
other than a few facts.
His name was Vladimir Alexeivich Montmeny. Obviously, he had
some Russian influence, as well as some French. We suspect his
family escaped the Motherland just before or after the Revolution.
History shows many Russians came to Quebec, Canada (French section)
during that period, hence the last name.
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Vladimir and Mom
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First guess is that Vlad's
mother was Russian, and his father was French (last name from father).
However, I suspect he may have been all Russian because of his middle name. The Russians
name their children with the middle name of the father's first
name ("Alexeivich" = "son of Alexei").
From what I know, this
rule is never broken, and this suggests that both parents were Russian.
Maybe the last name was changed to help blend into their new homeland?
Plus, if they left near the time of the Revolution, he may even have born
in Russia himself.
Vlad would later change his first name to "Thomas", btw,
adding weight to the name-changing-in-order-to-adapt theory. |
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So maybe I have Russian genes,
which would explain this insatiable and ever-growing love for that
place and people. Maybe I don't, but a DNA test is promised to
tell me where my gene pool has been in its travels.
If anyone knows anything about
chromosomal crossover during meiosis (sex cell formation), ...please, please
let me know! I've looked everywhere for many years, and all I
can find is that it occurs "randomly".
Chromosomal crossover is when some
of the chromotids (genes) from one side switch with the chromotids
from the other side when the sex cells (eggs and sperm) are being
made.
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That is, I got half of my genes
from my mother, and half from my father. However, when my
mother's genes split to form an egg, that egg did not get either
(exclusively) her mother's or her father's. There was a little
square dance during the splitting that sent some of her mother's genes
over to the 'father' side, and vice versa. The egg that made
half of me was a combination of her mother and father.
So this
nonsense when people say "I'm 1/16th Chinese" or whatever, is far from
the truth. The person could be 1/2 Chinese, or none at all, or
somewhere in between. It's not a simple binary split from 1/2 to
1/4 to 1/8 on up the family tree of contributors.
Since this exchange is the crux of
genetic recombination variety (evolution), I would think there would
be detailed information on the subject. There isn't ;(
All I can find is "independent
assortment" (read: "we don't know"). There are 23 chromosomes in
the human gamete, so there are
8,388,608 possible combinations of crossover. There must be some rules, or
tendencies, though. Does it happen a lot (many genes are mixed from mother's
and father's side to form each gamete), or only a little, or is it
really completely random, or are there ties to specific gene pools,
environmental influences, seasons, etc?
This is my dilemma, knowing how
much of my grandfather, on my mother's side, that I got.
All that is to say I was happy
to pay the small cost of getting a DNA test this month ;) I
should get the results in January. I wait with eager
anticipation! I'll be happy with wherever the results point to,
but it sure would explain much if they indicate a Russian influence. |
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Saturday, December 1, 2007 |
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I had dinner over at Anton's and
Elena's. Anton's mother was visiting from Moscow. She made
some of the best borsch and beliashi (meat pastries) I've ever had.
They gave me a big jar full of borsch and a huge baggie of beliashi to
take home. I love Russian food, ...these goodies didn't last long ;) |
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